Getting no replies online dating
This is like blaming the gym because you didn’t lose weight. So, check out my profile and if you like what I have to say, I really hope to hear from you soon.
But from both my personal experience and my coaching experience, I’ve learned that most people tend to fail in online dating and then blame the website.
As you may know, before I became a dating coach, I was a prolific online dater. Site are just big boxes of single people who are trying to meet each other. If you’ve ever received an email like this, you know it sucks.
I tried every site around, starting in the late 90’s. Nobody shows them how to come up with clever usernames. Nobody illustrates how to create a unique, compelling online dating profile. But then why do you also WRITE emails like this as well?
It’s important to acknowledge here that it’s possible that when someone hasn’t replied they may be perfectly interested in whatever relationship it is you’re seeking, but have forgotten/got busy/are feeling depressed.
I know personally I tend to stop replying to messages when I get depressed, and it’s not because I don’t like the person who’s messaging me.
And probably a few others that are escaping my memory right now.
Note: While this post pertains to dating advice and dynamics, it’s also entirely relevant for general social pursuits – eg.